As fathers, we are called to model for our families Jesus’ example and his commandment of charity. Involving our children in charitable giving helps instill in them selflessness and empathy, strengthens family bonds and deepens the family’s relationship with God.
Start with a family “generosity meeting” where you discuss what charitable causes matter most to everyone and identify issues that resonate with the whole family. This practice fosters unity and encourages intentionality in giving as you discern together how best to serve others in the name of Christ.
Simple acts of service, such as volunteering at a local charity or organizing a family donation drive, can have a big impact. These shared experiences, accompanied by prayerful reflection, help your family understand the spiritual meaning of generosity.
Monetary donations are another way to practice stewardship, show gratitude for God’s blessings, and support the Church’s mission of charity and evangelization. Jesus told his disciples, “Sell your belongings and give alms” (Lk 12:33). Giving of one’s money and possessions cultivates a spirit of detachment from material wealth, helping your family follow Christ’s example of selfless love.
No matter what strategy your family decides to implement, it is for you to lead the way. Consider making your family’s generosity meeting a regular occurrence to discuss charitable goals. They are also a great opportunity to share stories about the organizations you support and how your family’s sacrificial giving has made a difference.
Visit kofc.org/familyfinance for resources and more information.
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DENNIS J. GERBER JR. is the Order’s vice president of charitable giving and president of Knights of Columbus Charitable Fund.








