Advent invites us to prepare not only our homes, but also our hearts. It is a season of waiting, a holy pause to reflect on the promise of Christ. We celebrate that “God so loved the world that he gave his only Son” (Jn 3:16). This immeasurable gift reveals the heart of divine love and generosity. We are called to reflect this love in how we live and give in our own families and communities.
In my family’s home, one of our favorite traditions is gathering around the dinner table to talk about giving. Each child shares which causes matter most to them and why. Their answers — feeding the hungry, supporting our parish, helping those in need — are humbling in their simplicity. These conversations remind us that generosity is not just about money; it is about forming hearts to see others with compassion.
Intentional charitable planning, rooted in faith, helps turn these moments into lasting impact. For brother Knights, this is a way to pass on our Catholic values and legacy of generosity. Involving our children teaches them that giving is not just a seasonal act, but a lifelong habit of discipleship. It helps them discover, as Scripture reminds us, “It is more blessed to give than to receive” (Acts 20:35).
This Christmas season, let generosity become a tradition in your family. Through the Knights of Columbus Charitable Fund, you can establish a donor-advised fund that can grow over time and streamline the process of giving. Learn more at kofc.org/familyfinance.
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DENNIS J. GERBER JR. is president of Knights of Columbus Charitable Fund and a member of Father Patrick F. Pinder Council 3962 in Ramsey, N.J.








