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class="col-article__title"> <h1 > <div class="rich-text "> Grace and Virtue, the Foundation of Leadership </div> </h1> </div> <div class="col-article__date"> <time>May 1, 2024</time> </div> <div class="col-article__byline"> <span>By Joseph McInerney</span> </div> <div class="col-article__date-mobile"> <time>May 1, 2024</time> </div> <section class="col-article__featured "> <figure class="image-block-wrapper"> <picture><source srcset="https://files.kofc.org/images/assets/2024_05+Lead+with+Faith.jpg/89811960979311ef9144aece4ba995e3?width=900&height=506" /><img src="https://files.kofc.org/images/assets/2024_05+Lead+with+Faith.jpg/89811960979311ef9144aece4ba995e3?width=900&height=506" alt="A man washing someone's feet" loading="eager" class="img" decoding="auto" width="900" height="506" /></picture> <figcaption class="caption"> <div class="rich-text "> Jesus Washing Peter’s Feet, 1852-56, by Ford Madox Brown </div> </figcaption> </figure> </section> <section 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To overcome this dynamic, we must receive the grace God offers us — through prayer and the sacraments — to overcome our sin.</p> <p>Second, we must cooperate with God’s grace to develop the morally excellent habits necessary to conquer sin. Overcoming the temptation to first serve ourselves involves building up key virtues. Faith, hope, love, courage, integrity, humility and more are needed to live a life of self-sacrificial leadership.</p> <p>Jesus teaches us that service reaches its height when we are able to lay down our life for our friends (Jn 15:13). 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