To be intentional in marriage means to have a sense of purpose and a deliberate plan to live out your vocation faithfully. It’s critical to be striving toward something, to be putting in the effort to make your marriage what it ought to be.
What’s wonderful about our Catholic faith is that we don’t have to guess or figure it out ourselves. God has revealed all that we need to know in order to live happy and holy lives. The Church defines marriage as an intimate, exclusive, indissoluble communion of life and love, designed by the Creator and entered into by a man and a woman for their own good and for the procreation and education of their children.
It’s worth taking the time, as husband and wife, to sit down together and study the Church’s teachings about marriage and family, and to ask the Holy Spirit for understanding. As it says in Scripture, “Ask, and it will be given to you” (Mt 7:7).
There was a time when our marriage was far from what it ought to be. As we began our journey back to an understanding of the truth, we were blown away by what we read about marriage in Scripture and the catechism. No wonder we’d caused each other so much pain. We didn’t know what we were doing.
But when we got down on our knees and repented and asked God to come into our life, he met us with grace. And he has provided his grace each step of the way ever since.
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GREG and JULIE ALEXANDER direct a marriage apostolate called The Alexander House in Bulverde, Texas. Greg is a member of St. Joseph’s at Honey Creek Council 8521 in Spring Branch, Texas.






